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Attempting to diagnose a few issues of our culture and walking through the exit of an age of over-consumption.
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Israel Bracing for Attack From Iran
Nuclear deal in tatters, Iran close to weapons
How Iran Is Causing Chaos Beyond Israel and Palestine
Iran launches retaliatory attack on Israel
The Israel-Palestine conflict took a turn, thanks to Iran. Naturally, this is kicking up talks of World War III. This will be a big conversation this week!
Vatican blasts gender-affirming surgery, surrogacy
Did this diva finally pick a lane? I donāt understand how you can go from having trans women over for lunch to invalidating their lives. Itās giving ālove the sinner, not the sinā which is a toxic cover for bad acting in the name of religion.
The next conflict is millennials vs each other
Data story of the week! I could have told you this though: you live in a city and you see how differently people your age live and you āfeel this.ā Granted, there are grades to this but you know!
āReminders not currently supportedā
āJust trying to translateā
āHumane pin overheatsā
āThe product is not that good.ā
Really rotten launch week for the Humane AI Pin. Very embarrassing!
Paris prize money opens Olympic divide
This is fascinating, in that the Olympics is trying to have their cake and eat it too. Donāt pretend like you arenāt a money show! And, while smaller athletes may not āget as muchā money, itās all an ecological and metropolitan nightmare. (The other Olympic drama of the week? Nikeās āsexistā uniforms.)
Kim Ann Foxman and Cora attacked in Berlin
Group attack on a trans boy in Barcelona
"very disturbed hearing about 2 different incidents"
An unfortunate space to watch in 2024: queer hate attacks in supposedly queer-friendly zones. Awful stuff, granted such is āthe world.ā
Venice's new tourist tax launches this month
Protesters on hunger strike over mass tourism
Hawaii Considers a New Fee for Vacationers
These 24 Destinations Charge a Tourist Tax
I have beat this drum for months but over-tourism is being combated by taxes, it seems. This is going to be a bigger and bigger conversation!
3 men stranded rescued by spelling 'help'
Good reminder that, if youāre stranded on a desert island, spell out HELP.
We have a sickness ā but I canāt quite tell you what it is. I know the symptoms though! You do too. Letās look at them.
SYMPTOM A ā
āHumans are so cute,ā a person cries on TikTok, reflecting on gatherings during the eclipse. āWe chose to go to a nearby hill, tell our neighbors, and experience a little bit of community,ā another person says on TikTok. Meanwhile, there is a debate brewing: shouldnāt we be in friendship debts? Why donāt we ask friends to take us to the airport? Why do we have so many bad friendship boundaries? This is colliding with ideas of hanging out, which is and isnāt happening, and how social media has made people too comfortable being at home. SEE ALSO: the loneliness epidemic.SYMPTOM B ā
A lot of people are talking about the 4B movement, which crossed over from a The Cut feature fodder and into pro-feminism, anti-male TikTok nip. Itās a fitting 2020s counterweight to what incels were in the 2010s, which is aptly getting co-opted by men who are inching toward āa 5B movement.ā Happening in tandem is a work of art in Australia that was exclusively for women became a hot subject as a man who āfelt excludedā took the work to court ā and won. This now turns the art into literal politics as itās likely to head to the Supreme Court in the country. SEE ALSO: the theory that everyone will eventually date queerly.SYMPTOM C ā
For months and months, there have been conversation about people who donāt know how to research or get questions answered themselves. For months and months, there have been conversations about younger people being unable to navigate technology. For months and months, a phenomena has occurred where people demand in comments that a random post be about them. All of this coalesces into the āWhat about me?ā effect and ābean soup,ā which represents a thirst for knowledge but deep laziness in the pursuit, an inability to research, a lack of autonomy, and a reliance on others to do the labor of living for you. SEE ALSO: ādoing your own researchāSYMPTOM D ā
The number one post I have been thinking about all week is how someone who works in AI asked ChatGPT for advice on their hair. I donāt mean to sound dramatic but thereās something deeply unwell about this. Iām surprised it didnāt say āGrow another head on your head.ā Very uneasy vibes! SEE ALSO: āI have a group chat with three AI friends.ā and āYour AI chatbot will support you no matter what.ā and āYour childās favorite teacher may be a chatbot.ā but also āHow to Use Apps to Actually Make Friendsā and āCan a friendship app cure loneliness?ā and āBumble looks to revive its friendship-focused BFF productā and āActivity-based friendship app aims to help people connect.āĀ
I think these are all intertwined. These are all interpersonal problems that are interrupted, confused, or complicated by tech. This isnāt the fault of the bogey man āthe dead internet is here and it sucksā ā But itās not not that! ā and this isnāt the fault of changing technologies, a la the existential crisis that comes with AI ā but itās not not that too. Our disconnection and lack of lives could be the umbrella that all of these things fit under while also being the rain pouring down.
Iām not sure (Maybe you are!) but I do think that another, somewhat obvious item could be at play: performance culture. In the mid-2010s, when social media and the internet shifted from āThis is me! Really!ā to āThis is the idea of me projected upon the internet for money, attention, or other forms of currency!ā we lost something as people, both online and offline. Relationships shifted from seeing each other as each other and more as tools for content, stones to step on, and puppets to entertain us. It took the piss out of life, in a lot of ways, by manufacturing life, by pretending the unreal was real. (Which, paired with reality television, is a toxic combination.) Thus, a reality dominated by what was once a niche field of study that overlapped theater and sociology (which, unfortunately, I have a degree in).
The cure isnāt logging off ā but the answer isnāt not logging on. I think the recent and sage āfight for your right to partyā TikTok said it best: āWhen young people get together for recreation, thatās what makes culture evolve. Thatās what makes pop culture happen. Right now, itās dying on the vine.ā
Don Hertzfeldt and Ari Aster Collaborating
This is quite inspired even if I still have not seen Beau Is Afraid.
Patti Astor, Founder Legendary Fun Gallery, Dies
RIP to Patti! She was an icon who helped to shape so much of what has become mainstream āart,ā by offering a platform to persons like Kenny Scharf and Futura. I feel like she didnāt get enough credit in her life!
Oldest living conjoined twins die at 62
Did you know that the eldest conjoined twins were in their sixties? I had never thought about this before. Their story is super interesting too!
Gen Z slang terms are influenced by incels
Found this while looking up things for the above essay, which is an interesting way of saying that, like āslayā and āgivingā being gobbled up by kids from the left and queer culture means āpilledā and āmaxingā being absorbed from the right and incel. Everyone āwinsā by these terms becoming ubiquitous.
Lauren Oylerās meditations
High-brow delicious drama of the week: Bookforumās review of Lauren Oylerās new essay collection is one of the most savage reads youāll encounter this year. It even went viral on Twitter! I didnāt love Fake Accounts (Real ones know what the best fiction book about the internet in 2021 was.) but itās quite poetic to see the critic get critiqued. Hereās good context on the drama.
"Google Docs locking folks out"
āauthor lost accessā
āWarning To All Writersā
Is Google Docs actually censoring āspicyā content? I donāt think so, as itās probably more a matter of spam email addresses running amok. Regardless, some writer people are in a tizzy.Ā
The Gospel According to Delta Work
Delta Work is a queer personās Socrates. A must read for any fan of drag, queer, and LA culture.
"was written & directed by a kid"
āI want her to stand in the streetā
Random fact of the week: Jennifer Love Hewittās āWHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?ā scene from I Know What You Did Last Summer was actually written and directed by a kid who won some contest. I guess Hollywood dreams do come true in the 1990s, even though that kid probably aināt in Hollywood no more!
Truancy Volume 325: DJ Wawa
A great interview, with a joyous, ready-for-summer mix. A crowd pleaser!
āWorking with David Byrneā
St. Vincent explaining David Byrneās songwriting process is your creative inspiration of the week! Just because something isnāt perfect or done doesnāt mean that it cannot be shared!
āGod bless the man who left this commentā
Autobiographies under YouTube videos are such a great genre. This one under āItās Okay To Cryā is no exception.
āHere is Princess Lollyā
āThis is Jollyā
"The Candy Land board"
The best television I watched this week was this TikTok series on the evolution of the Candy Land board. I think Tuesdayās essay might be about this, as the most recent board says a lot about āchildhood today.ā
all i ever wanted was to be a hipster š
Paid subscribers got an essay about a book that formed my teenage years and young adult years. I still think about this book a lot!
I want us to do an exercise. Literally do this, if youāre at home!
Whatās the oldest thing in your house that you still use? Not vintage, not used, but something you bought and obtained and have been using for years and years and years. Iām not talking about an old perfume bottle that belonged to your grandmother, that sits on your shelf, nor am I talking about your old iPod, which is in a drawer, that you sometimes look at longingly. Iām talking about the comb from middle school that you still use every day, that one shirt from freshman year of college that ā Somehow! ā still fits and is still stylish. Maybe itās the couch you bought for your first apartment, which you still own twenty years later. It could be a set of bowls that you were gifted and have used for a decade. It could be a dictionary you were given as a child that you still use regularly.
Gather those things. Observe them. Thank them! Why do you love them? Why do they work? Would you ever replace them? What purpose do they have in your life? How can you mend them to make them matter more?
For me, itās a large InCase backpack I got in 2012. Itās also a Scrabble board I stole from my family when I went to college in the early 2000s. Itās a J.Crew coat I found at a thrift store in DC while in college in 2006. Itās all the things that belong to my grandfather. Itās a comb from Bobbyās grandmother. Itās a pair of gold hoop earrings my friend Cori gave me. Itās a set of cups my friend Shad made me and Bobby. Itās all these things and more!
While very KonMari, I think we can apply this way of thinking to more than just objects. How can we build relationships with our stuff? How can we build relationships to, say, a brand, so that what you can guarantee what you bring in your home is an extension of relationship building? Weāre very much primed to buy buy buy, to go into Sephora and amass as much as you can or encounter that new Uniqlo collection to lust at another blank tee that you already own. Do you need these things? Iām on a clothing fast, meaning Iām not buying clothes ā or much of anything ā because I really have no desire for anything and I want to save money. But, more importantly, I donāt need anything. I have all of my essentials ā and then some! Yes, I need things like deodorant every few weeks. But do I need to buy the $20 Salt & Stone Black Rose Oud instead of a $2 non-brand crystal deodorant? The $2 crystal works just as well, lasts for years, and is compostable. It may not fare well in the summer but itās been perfectly acceptable in the falls and winter.
I say all this because weāre reaching an end cycle of two decades of consumption. That vibe shift New Yorkers talked about may finally be happening ā but not in the way that was expected. Look to the Kardashians, who have been in a theorized state of decline for almost two years. If we specifically look at Kylie and her failure to thrive in 2024, we can see a wider picture of what culture is now. Nicky Reardonās thoughtful, thorough explanation of this maps the idea better than I can, but it also builds on months of similar thinking from people like that one āIāve studied marketing!ā TikToker, which is as much truth as it is trendy to dog them.
But this is a bellwether. As one person explained, the Kardashians and capitalism are intertwined in the sense that capitalism is designed to make all resources and all aspects of living profitable in the service of further profit while the Kardashians profit off of every insecurity and poor feeling you have about yourself in the service of making you feel worse in your pursuit of ābecoming them.ā Thatās not why theyāre collapsing: this trend is crashing into two others, largely that there is too much stuff and people are realizing you cannot buy experience. The Kardashian audience, many of whom were tweens and teens a decade ago, during the era of the lip challenge, are grown ā and simultaneously starved and glutted by every celebrity now having a makeup line or product line, an alcohol thing or a wellness thing. And itās not just celebrities: itās athletes and creators, drag queens and chefs. Itās obvious that (rich) people are money grabbing left and right when those who are being squeezed have less and less. This is to say: weāre realizing we donāt āneed anything elseā as entertainment, tech, and commerce join forces to squelch us of all we have. We need infrastructure, not another celebrity seltzer!
I know you feel it. I know weāre approaching a point of recognizing our consumer poisoning. This week alone there were two viral videos about this subject, one about a personās 22 year old backpack and one where Charli XCX explained why people should wear their clothes to death. This runs in parallel to the growing and good action that people are taking in the Let Them Eat Cereal movement. Toss in the billionaire private flight tracking phenomenon too and you see where this is heading: weāre hungry to taste billionaire veal.
Letās start thinking about shopping and what we consume almost as a form of sobriety, competing to see how long we can use things and go without āa fix.ā The planet would thank us, weād have more character, and weād save money ā while sticking a wrench in the machine of consumption. Thank all of the items youāve owned for all these years and years. Tell them youāll love them and care for them in the ways they love and care for you. Make a product instead of buying a product. Skip something that seems āimportant.ā Wear the same outfit more than once in a week. Who is harmed? Who cares? No one.
āeclipse to a fishā
Favorite eclipse post.
āNancy Reaganā
āWhy did Marilyn Monroe singā
Just some posts about First Ladies that I liked.
"baby owls sleep on their stomachs"
This is how I sleep, if you care.
ādeepest hole in the worldā
Been thinking about this.
āfavourite version of the trolley problemā
If I had it my way, this would be the only version of the trolley problem.
āWhy would she be doing thatā
Iāve been losing my mind over this right-wing comic for days.
āeverything i madeā
"i remember having to wake up for school"
Creator of the week is the private chef who works for a āfashion personā who is so clearly Jenna Lyons.
āLana ur impactā
āBut Daddy I Love Himā
Iām no Lana fan but her song titles are elite āĀ and weird that so many artists are now ācopyingā her style. Lazy!Ā
āAsked my coworkers if they remembered The Strokesā
And this is why I removed the year I graduated from college from my LinkedIn and resumƩ.
āgay pop delusionā
This is the best take on the Jojo Siwa silly song.
"you don't know who Chloƫ"
Thereās something simultaneously endearing and embarrassing about ānot knowingā who ChloĆ« Sevigny is as a fashion person. Granted, I couldnāt finish the video because I got embarrassed.
āLarry David funko popā
Iāll never look at Danny DeVito the same again.
āfriend who recently learned new wordsā
I watched this many times, which all emphasizes that we gotta open up these schools again.
"my sims when i dont feed them"
Maybe the hardest I laughed this week.
ādoing a little bit of researchā
Can anyone confirm that this works? I may do this later.
And, finally, how it would sound if I read these emails to you.
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Hard agree: Patricia Lockwood, hard disagree: crystal deodorant. Never been smellier! The book drama brings to mind Andrea Long Chuās scathing Lapvona takedown: https://www.vulture.com/article/ottessa-moshfegh-lapvona-review.html
I liked the two essays. The one about the symptoms is helping me cook on an idea I've been cooking for weeks, inspired by Compact Magazine: the war between IRL and URL. And yes I am not being dramatic it is a fucking war. The second essay was also great. What particularly stood out to me is the glut of celebrity 360 deals. As much as I've razzed the Dimes Square micro celebs (who were at the center of the New York vibe shift), they are the opposite in a way: they are not even famous for their works so much as for their parasocial personalities. Their auto fiction introduces people to their IRL shenanigans. But then I guess this goes back to the performance culture referenced in the first essay. Good stuff!